Sexual Health and IBD
Frequently Asked Questions
Questions (and answers) about sex and IBD as an LGBTQ+ person, navigating sexual activities and life with perianal/rectal IBD or fissures/fistulas
Bottoming/anal sex or having anoreceptive intercourse (RAI) while in an active flare/perianal disease - what to do? Can I?
Is the Google search result you are getting about “Gay Men Are 2x More Likely To Develop IBD” True? NO!!!!! That was some misattribution of statistics and had a lot of methodological issues!! You are NOT developing IBD because you are gay or having anal sex - that paper was not it. IBD is NOT your fault and not because you are gay, having sex, or anything. Don't let Google make you think that.
I’m in a flare now/not ready for bottoming/anal/RAI - how can I get back to all healed up?
If my Crohn’s/Colitis is in remission, can I have anal sex/bottom?
Using Fleet/saline enemas - are these okay?
Amyl/akyl nitrate/’poppers’ - can I use these?
Oral sex and IBD?
Sex after colorectal surgery, including, but not limited to, J-pouch surgery, IPAA procedures, and other common IBD-related surgeries
Bottoming prep with IBD - what’s different for me than someone who doesn’t have IBD?
And more! All the questions that aren't answered (or answered correctly), answered here by someone who's been there, done that, and got the T-shirt. (I'm LGBTQ+ and have IBD)